Hi guys, most of the people reading, are just about the age where you begin to get into relationships. (if not don't worry relationships aren't the meaning of life enjoy the freedom)
if you are in the stage where you are talking to a guy, try and think about these things before jumping into the relationship pool.
1. Do you really like the guy. Now you may be like YES WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT HE LIKES ME THATS ALL I NEED, but that is not the way you should view relationships. Just because someone likes you doesn't mean you have to like them back. Even if you are desperate for a relationship, don't settle for someone you wouldn't be happy with. Attraction is an important factor in a relationship. Value yourself.
2. Are you really ready? As i have mentioned on a previous blog post, although in you're mind you feel like the most ready person in the world, think deep if you really want it. You can just be friends with someone, sometimes its better that way ( and you have a boy on the inside for when you need dirt on another guy you like)Never pressure yourself into anything you truly don't want to do, make sure you value yourself just as much as you value them.
3. Are you doing it for the right reasons. A relationship should be between two people that truly value each other, not just want to be around someone because they can say they have a girlfriend. if you find that you are in a friendship group, and the only one thats single, don't freak out about it. It isn't a big of a deal as you think it is. You can be the hard headed one helping them with breakups, and just because you haven't been in a relationship, doesn't mean you can't give good advice to support you're friends relationships.
Now if you are at this stage and you have ticked all the boxes for a great relationship, go for it. Its 2016 not the dark ages where girls have to wait for guys to make the first move. If you like him, start a conversation, ask him on a date, whats the worst thing that could happen? He says no, life goes on.
Good luck girls
Love clo xxxxxx
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