Hello lovelies
Today I'm going to be giving you 5 signs that a guy is just not into you. Now i have had a lot of experience in this field (*cries a little inside*) and I'm going to give you some helpful tips and tricks to make sure you know if he likes you or not.
1. One sided conversations
Now if you and this guy are texting and you relies that you are asking the questions and not getting any back? I'm sorry dear but he isn't that into you. If he does this he doesn't want to carry on the conversation with you, and maybe is trying to nicely stop you talking to him. This also applies to if you are always popping up first. If everyday you message them and wait hours for a response and they reply half heartedly, they aren't into you.
Example:
(right the girl is Sarah and the boys name shall be George)
Sarah- Hi how is your day?
(sent at 5.00pm)
George- ok
(sent at 12.00pm)
Sarah- Hows your day?
(Sent at 7.00am)
George- ok
(sent at 11.00pm)
If this is you and another person, I'm sorry but they aren't interested in the conversation and doesn't like you in that way. Don't worry laddies the perfect man is still out there yet!!
2. He never wants to meet up with you
If you are always dropping hints and asking to go out with someone and they always so no, or they are busy, means they probably don't like you. Now he may actually be busy but if this happens constantly then he is making excuses to not meet you. Never put up with that s**t. If they say "maybe in the future" don't start making date plans in you're head, because love it probably isn't going to happen. If he liked you enough he would drop anything to spend a second with you.
3. He refers to you as mate, or in my experience, Homeslice. If he is calling you names like this, he is trading you like on of his mates, which means you have been friend zoned my dear. But this could be the start of a great friendship, remember not every boy you talk to has to become a boyfriend, sometimes its good to have one to ask about boys in the future. Pretty nifty huh!
4. He constantly mentions his ex's and girls he finds attractive. This is a big no no and you should back away as soon as you can. If he is mentioning a girl called Stacy that he likes, he doesn't like you, he likes Stacy! There may be a small chance you two could fall in love, but in reality it doesn't happen much.
5. lastly, he doesn't try and take interest in the things you love. Now i know they say opposites attract but not in every case. If you mention a favourite song or band that you adore, and he doesn't say he will listen or doesn't give an opinion on it, he doesn't care about what you like, and probably doesn't fancy you. But don't be bummed out by this , Trust me the right guy will come at the right time, as Louise Penthurst says " i was crying at my table thinking i would never be in love, a week later i met my husband"
I hope these helped. If you want me to do a She's not that into you, comment below.
love clo xx
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