Somebody told me yesterday about a problem they where facing. They told me that they are talking to a boy and have been talking for a about a month. He brought up going on a date and she is unclear on her feelings, and asked if i could discuss it in a blog post.
I myself have had a few experiences like this and am happy to give some advice. As i have explained before i get very self destructive when i find that people like me and i have the tendency to try and put them off to stay in control of the situation. So when people tend to ask me on dates, i usually tend to back out at the last minute and feel awful after.
I say that if the situation feels right. Go for it. But make sure you have talked a lot in person first. So it isn't awkward, that is the worst possible scenario because you feel like you can't be yourself. If you know that you can connect with that person on a personal level, you shouldn't have to much trouble making conversation.
and girls remember it is 2016, you can ask the guy on the date. If its getting to the 4th month of just chatting then dont be afraid to put your foot in the door and ask to meet up. This doesn't mean that you become the masculine for it, But as my date said to me, it makes you seem more confident and you know what you want from life, which is very attractive to most guys.
Also if the date is that bad you can always "loose" his number
love clo xxx
and girls remember it is 2016, you can ask the guy on the date. If its getting to the 4th month of just chatting then dont be afraid to put your foot in the door and ask to meet up. This doesn't mean that you become the masculine for it, But as my date said to me, it makes you seem more confident and you know what you want from life, which is very attractive to most guys.
Also if the date is that bad you can always "loose" his number
love clo xxx
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